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Offline PMac

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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #128 on: January 11, 2012, 11:46:00 PM »
Most on here will tell you to abstain from adult beverages. Probably good advice. Actually, it's very good advice if you are having a beer or several with people that are also nicotine addicts like yourself. You have a few, they have a few, they pull out a can, and you find yourself starting over again and feeling like shit about it.

I, for the most part, don't live around anyone that dips or smokes or chews. None of my neighbors do. None of the friends that I hang out with do (or if they do they are ninjas like myself). So I haven't worried about drinking the last three weeks. Actually, I figure that drinking has been insurance for me - after a few beers I know I'm not driving anyway so if I don't have any around the house then I'm not going to drive to go get some!
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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #127 on: January 11, 2012, 10:20:00 PM »
Souli gave me the push I needed to fight this addiction. I'm wrapping up day 5.

i've been working out every morning for a hour which helps calm the nerves for a good part of the day. my jaw hurts from chewing so much gum and have a bunch of blisters/whatnot from (i think) plowing through so many sunflower seeds.

the nights have been the most challenging. cravings are bad and winding down to sleep is the worst. my old routine would be coming back after a long day, pack a huge lip, and relax. i'd have it in for the entire evening. does anyone have any advice they can share?

also, i enjoy an adult beverage from time to time (or more) but i've purposely avoided the last 5 days. the weekend is coming up and i would like to have some beers without falling into a nic trap. any thoughts or previous experience that may help? dont think that made sense, but hopefully you know what i mean.

Thx for all the support and ready to continue this fight.

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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #126 on: January 08, 2012, 08:23:00 AM »
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Im on day 7, Danny x has helped me immensly. You gave me a focus, challange maybe, kinda like a stray dog pissing on your fence. I got no love the first time I posted....didn't need any, was a weak scared little field mouse. yeah yeah pretty pink panties and all. Thanks for shining a light on my weakness, poking me in the eye and pushing me into a corner so the only way out was QUIT. Thanks.

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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #125 on: January 07, 2012, 04:14:00 PM »
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Im on day 7, Danny x has helped me immensly. You gave me a focus, challange maybe, kinda like a stray dog pissing on your fence. I got no love the first time I posted....didn't need any, was a weak scared little field mouse. yeah yeah pretty pink panties and all. Thanks for shining a light on my weakness, poking me in the eye and pushing me into a corner so the only way out was QUIT. Thanks.

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Just needed to believe in yourself bro. That's all. This is all you. I just throw a smile and a high five now and then. An occasional kick to the crotch when necessary...per my discretion.

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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #124 on: January 07, 2012, 01:51:00 PM »
Im on day 7, Danny x has helped me immensly. You gave me a focus, challange maybe, kinda like a stray dog pissing on your fence. I got no love the first time I posted....didn't need any, was a weak scared little field mouse. yeah yeah pretty pink panties and all. Thanks for shining a light on my weakness, poking me in the eye and pushing me into a corner so the only way out was QUIT. Thanks.

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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #123 on: January 05, 2012, 12:06:00 PM »
you can do this

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« Reply #122 on: January 05, 2012, 11:57:00 AM »
Man, if these badass quitters got your back then I'll pick up the sword and fight the nic bitch with you today too! Come on AV. Join us in the battle against Big Tobacco. It's a righteous fight and we are all in it together.

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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #121 on: January 05, 2012, 10:43:00 AM »
Come on AV...nothing feels as good as QUIT :)
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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #120 on: January 05, 2012, 10:38:00 AM »
IN!
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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #119 on: January 05, 2012, 09:56:00 AM »
damn, AV, you've got some HEAVY hitters in your corner here.

YOU CAN'T BUY SUPPORT LIKE THIS.

i like what i see in here, so i want to be a part of it... looking forward to hearing your story and seeing you post roll. there's no time like the present.

what are you waiting for?
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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #118 on: January 05, 2012, 09:31:00 AM »
We've all faced the fear and conquered it. Proof that it can be done. Jump in, the water is fucking fine!

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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #117 on: January 05, 2012, 09:28:00 AM »
I got your back.

All you got to do is make the choice.
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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #116 on: January 05, 2012, 09:20:00 AM »
It's worth the fight, AV!! All the way . . . .

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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #115 on: January 05, 2012, 09:19:00 AM »
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Bring it AV.

I'm here to fight that nic bitch with you, too.

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Count me in too. Don't know who you are AV but I do know what you're going through. So does everyone else on this site.

Be courageous and take the first step. I know it's difficult. You can do this and we can help but you have to take that first step...
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Re: Souli to AVain, Souli to AVain...come in AVain
« Reply #114 on: January 05, 2012, 09:14:00 AM »
Fear is quite a powerful human emotion. It can even create paralysis.

One of the ways humans have coped with fear over history is by participating in groups. We can study the negative aspects of groups by reading about Despots in war or observing the mob mentality. On a positive note, we have all cheered sports teams that have overcome insurmountable odds. Groups are powerful. Groups enable individuals to overcome fear and accomplish more than they could on their own.

Here at KTC we have created a group that produces very positive results for those who have decided to use nicotine no longer. By participating in this group, quitters have a higher success rate than if they were to quit on their own. Why? Mentoring and support. I would imagine our success rate is as high as any method available. If you join us you will learn what symptoms to expect and how to handle them. You will have an access to knowledge, a plan and support; support like no other.

Addiction is no joke. It is powerful.

You can get the original AV back. You may not remember him, but he is there. He is more powerful, happier and fitter than the one nicotine owns and presents to the world.

Fear not, you can do this. You can count on me for help.