Day 4- Dodging Nic (Re)Building a Solid Foundation of Support
Doing good really. The worst part of the fog seems to have passed actually. I know that Nic will coming creeping roun' the corner though once I get relaxed. He's a sneaky pimp. He'll try to get in my ear and run game on me. I know it's coming though and can peep game when I see/hear/feel it. Ain't gon' happen though. 'finger point'
Still earning back my wife's trust. I deceived her,running around with Nic. I get it. I'm just focused on posting roll every morning and stick to it until I post the next morning. This is what will rebuild our foundation. However, this time it will be stronger because I ditched the pimp, Nic.
It's been really helpful having brothers like JP Anthony there. We quit on the same day. We text back and forth from time to time just to check in. It's good to have other folk there too though, whether on discussion board or chat room or text/call. I stopped dip in the past with another person and if you become too dependent on that one person's support, when they cave, you can cave. It's not a solid foundation. I truly believe that building bridges with weak foundations are bound to collapse. It's good to have an ace (or go-to brother) like JP, but it's important to broaden out your support base and build a more sustainable foundation. In previous attempts to quit (thatturned into just stops) I always had one person with me through the journey. Usually, this particular buddy of mine. We'd quit together. However, when one caved, the foundation crumbled and we both caved.