From your quit group.....so you don't miss it....
Dave, you don't just get to go back to day 1. You have to tell us what happened, why, what you will do different this time. We need to believe you when you tell us that you are quit. It's what this entire website is built around
(1) What happened?
(2) Why did it happen?
(3) What are you doing differently this time?
Answers please. You owe it to October and November
What happened? Whos going to care? Its just an excuse for my own shortcoming. I had a moment of weakness. I was craving and just wanted something in my lip. I drove to two different walmarts and couldnt find smokey mountain anywhere. ready for the irony? if i could have waited just one more day i would have been fine. next morning bright and early my order of bacc off came in. one friggen day. moment of weakness. craving. its just an excuse.
Why? oh it was totally just for attention. i wasnt getting enough already so i came up with this big elaborate plan to fool everyone into liking me more. and it worked for a little while till people started figuring me out. you better keep reading cause i love the attention im getting right now.
Next time? Fuck, im just gonna deal with shit myself. Half the people on here want to help. the other half are just condescending dick holes that run their mouths for no apparent reason other than to hear themselves. I mean, do you seriously think that I find that intimidating? fuck you.
Im done. Ill quit by myself. Anyone who is my contact ill post roll to you through text. If you want me to stop i will. idk how i could fuck all this up in two short days but i guess im just good at that.
goodluck all of november and 'Finger'
Dave,
We don't coddle here. We don't rub your back and tell you that it will all be ok, to try again, and "you can do it champ!"
Doing the above only enables you and anyone else to cave and fall back into your addiction. It feeds your addict mind by saying "Hey, it's ok if I go back and put that stuff in my mouth. They'll be nice to me and let me start over". Unfortunately, it doesn't work like that. We need to make sure that YOU know (as well as any other quitter who happens to read this) that caving is unacceptable. There IS NO EXCUSE for going back to the can. Why? Let me point it out....
If you read up on this website, you'll see that you are supposed to post roll every day. And by posting roll, you are promising not only me, but your quit group, the rest of the website, and yourself that you won't use nicotine for the day. You aren't promising forever, you are just promising for 1 single day.
So here's the equation:
You post roll = you promise = you quit.
Ta Da!
It's not a magic trick. It's not complicated. It's not easy as we can all attest to, but it is simple. So here's the rub. You know this site works. You know that the above equation will give you success.
1. You didn't post roll, therefore didn't make a promise to stay clean, therefore you are a dumbass.
2. You did post roll, and did promise, therefore you are a liar and I can't trust you at your word.
I don't know which one you did, 1 or 2. Either way, you don't deserve to be hand held and ball-stroked. But here's the good news. You get a 2nd chance. You get to start over. But there is a price: you get to endure the wrath from all of us that keep our promise day in and day out. Sure, you lost our trust as of now. But that doesn't mean you can't get it back. For some of us, that means you post for 3 days in a row. For some of us, you have to post for 3 months in a row. And for some of us, you might have to post for 300 days in a row.
Right now, the little tantrum that you threw and are throwing is nothing but your addicted brain giving you an excuse to go back to the can. You arrived at this site because you NEED the accountability. So let us hold you accountable for your actions. Stand up, admit you f'ed up, and get back to quitting. Plain and simple.
