Not really sure what to do here, Today is my last day with chew and all I know is I want to quit! I have tried to quit so many times before and I have only been chewing for 6 years. Now when I try to even think about quiting I start getting scared about failing again, About going to the gas station just for 1 more can which turns into another can and another can. My problem with quiting is my anger gets to me and my brain feels like its going crazy by its self only hours after quiting. But I wanted to stop by and introduce myself.
Thank you!
Welcome HUgeneral!
All of us have failed before, most of us numerous times. But quitting is possible, freedom is attainable. There is a proven formula for success at this site and if you follow it, you can beat your addiction.
Use this site to surround yourself with motivation, support and accountability. Motivation comes through reading about the success and struggles of others. Support comes from engaging with others, sharing your own struggles and finding out the people here are going through the same damn thing. Accountability comes from making a promise not to use any nicotine product for 24 hours. You make that promise first thing every day and then keep that promise.
The support and engagement is contingent on you making that daily promise in your designated quit group (yours will be December, as you will hit 100 days clean in December). That promise, "posting roll," is the price of entry for using this site and it is the backbone of the system here.
As I mentioned in a previous post, although you will find tons of support here, this is not a support site, this is a quit site. Once you take the step, you are quit and there is zero tolerance for using any nicotine product. The only way to do this is one day at a time, so you make that promise daily.
Eventually, you will discover the final piece of the puzzle - brotherhood. You will learn to care about the others struggling with you, as you lean on them and they lean on you. Be a man of your word, encourage others and use this site to its fullest and the system WORKS.
Reach out if I can help.