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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #221 on: March 09, 2016, 05:32:00 PM »
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Coping skills. My absolute biggest weekness is women. Hands down. No questions asked. Bat those eye lids, sweeten that voice up like honey. I am mush. Any suggestions? Especially if they have a dip in. GEEZ! That was the queen I wanted! A Copenhagen Angel as it were.
Hmm... I don't have any personal experience with this one as I never really hung with the female dippin crowd.

That said... if women who dip are your issue, might I suggest going somewhere where the women DON'T dip? I don't recall ever seeing a stripper with a dip in. Just saying. ;)
They are a rare breed indeed. I just know that is the ultimate combo for me. And, as for everything in life. We can't hide from everything. We wille eventually have to face the fear. Gas Stations, grocery stores that carry snuff, the adverts, numerous things. For some, a gatoraide bottle could be a trigger and sometimes you can't turn the bottle down especially working outside in Oklahoma in the Summer. I guess what I am really asking. Is there someway or place we have to post discussions like this? Things we need to know?
Yes, on the message boards for your quit group. Have you been posting roll every damn day?
Yes, I have. I would think a centralized location would be more efficient rather than in the quit group between rolls and other things that happen. keep it clear of clutter like it should be.
Actually, if you don't to discuss it within your group, then you're in perfect place.

Other possible areas may be within your personal introduction thread within the Introductions area forum/55574/ or if there is an appropriate topic within the Wildcard section: forum/55599/
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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #220 on: March 09, 2016, 03:11:00 PM »
Well... Day one. Been dipping for about 5 years now, never had any luck with quitting. I have tried multiple times but could never get over that hump. I big trigger of mine is just driving in the car. Gum seems to help a little bit. Any suggestions would be wonderful, I want this damn habit to be kicked!! Seeing this website helps, knowing there are so many others like me out there.

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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #219 on: March 09, 2016, 03:10:00 PM »
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Coping skills. My absolute biggest weekness is women. Hands down. No questions asked. Bat those eye lids, sweeten that voice up like honey. I am mush. Any suggestions? Especially if they have a dip in. GEEZ! That was the queen I wanted! A Copenhagen Angel as it were.
Hmm... I don't have any personal experience with this one as I never really hung with the female dippin crowd.

That said... if women who dip are your issue, might I suggest going somewhere where the women DON'T dip? I don't recall ever seeing a stripper with a dip in. Just saying. ;)
They are a rare breed indeed. I just know that is the ultimate combo for me. And, as for everything in life. We can't hide from everything. We wille eventually have to face the fear. Gas Stations, grocery stores that carry snuff, the adverts, numerous things. For some, a gatoraide bottle could be a trigger and sometimes you can't turn the bottle down especially working outside in Oklahoma in the Summer. I guess what I am really asking. Is there someway or place we have to post discussions like this? Things we need to know?
Yes, on the message boards for your quit group. Have you been posting roll every damn day?
Yes, I have. I would think a centralized location would be more efficient rather than in the quit group between rolls and other things that happen. keep it clear of clutter like it should be.

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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #218 on: March 09, 2016, 02:32:00 PM »
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Coping skills. My absolute biggest weekness is women. Hands down. No questions asked. Bat those eye lids, sweeten that voice up like honey. I am mush. Any suggestions? Especially if they have a dip in. GEEZ! That was the queen I wanted! A Copenhagen Angel as it were.
Hmm... I don't have any personal experience with this one as I never really hung with the female dippin crowd.

That said... if women who dip are your issue, might I suggest going somewhere where the women DON'T dip? I don't recall ever seeing a stripper with a dip in. Just saying. ;)
They are a rare breed indeed. I just know that is the ultimate combo for me. And, as for everything in life. We can't hide from everything. We wille eventually have to face the fear. Gas Stations, grocery stores that carry snuff, the adverts, numerous things. For some, a gatoraide bottle could be a trigger and sometimes you can't turn the bottle down especially working outside in Oklahoma in the Summer. I guess what I am really asking. Is there someway or place we have to post discussions like this? Things we need to know?
Yes, on the message boards for your quit group. Have you been posting roll every damn day?

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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #217 on: March 08, 2016, 05:52:00 PM »
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Coping skills. My absolute biggest weekness is women. Hands down. No questions asked. Bat those eye lids, sweeten that voice up like honey. I am mush. Any suggestions? Especially if they have a dip in. GEEZ! That was the queen I wanted! A Copenhagen Angel as it were.
Hmm... I don't have any personal experience with this one as I never really hung with the female dippin crowd.

That said... if women who dip are your issue, might I suggest going somewhere where the women DON'T dip? I don't recall ever seeing a stripper with a dip in. Just saying. ;)
They are a rare breed indeed. I just know that is the ultimate combo for me. And, as for everything in life. We can't hide from everything. We wille eventually have to face the fear. Gas Stations, grocery stores that carry snuff, the adverts, numerous things. For some, a gatoraide bottle could be a trigger and sometimes you can't turn the bottle down especially working outside in Oklahoma in the Summer. I guess what I am really asking. Is there someway or place we have to post discussions like this? Things we need to know?

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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #216 on: March 08, 2016, 01:38:00 AM »
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Hey all,

Ex baseball player going on 8 years of a can a day. My quit starts now.. I have quit on and off for no more than a few weeks straight in the past few years. I apologize in advance for my ranting during the next few days,

Cheers
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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #215 on: March 08, 2016, 01:36:00 AM »
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Been trying to quit on and off for the past 6 months. Tried a lot of alternatives but nothing helps. Also don't want to replace this habit with another dangerous one. Not much of a talker but I am hoping other people going through the same struggle gives me the extra motivation to realize I am not alone and this is a battle is one I can win
Fake isn't dangerous, that is just the chew/nicotine trying to convince you not to quit.
Here is a good resource:
http://www.killthecan.org/your-quit/smo ... ernatives/

But while that is good, you have to want it and while you have tried to 'quit' in the past you have failed.
Join KTC and post roll everyday, this is the difference it is the difference of doing and trying...
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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #214 on: March 08, 2016, 01:27:00 AM »
Been trying to quit on and off for the past 6 months. Tried a lot of alternatives but nothing helps. Also don't want to replace this habit with another dangerous one. Not much of a talker but I am hoping other people going through the same struggle gives me the extra motivation to realize I am not alone and this is a battle is one I can win
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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #213 on: March 08, 2016, 12:38:00 AM »
Hey all,

Ex baseball player going on 8 years of a can a day. My quit starts now.. I have quit on and off for no more than a few weeks straight in the past few years. I apologize in advance for my ranting during the next few days,

Cheers

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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #212 on: March 07, 2016, 10:45:00 PM »
pretty powerful message here...

Randall - The Face of Cancer
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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #211 on: March 07, 2016, 10:44:00 PM »
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Coping skills. My absolute biggest weekness is women. Hands down. No questions asked. Bat those eye lids, sweeten that voice up like honey. I am mush. Any suggestions? Especially if they have a dip in. GEEZ! That was the queen I wanted! A Copenhagen Angel as it were.
Hmm... I don't have any personal experience with this one as I never really hung with the female dippin crowd.

That said... if women who dip are your issue, might I suggest going somewhere where the women DON'T dip? I don't recall ever seeing a stripper with a dip in. Just saying. ;)
"Every man dies... not every man really lives." - William Wallace

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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #210 on: March 07, 2016, 04:53:00 PM »
Coping skills. My absolute biggest weekness is women. Hands down. No questions asked. Bat those eye lids, sweeten that voice up like honey. I am mush. Any suggestions? Especially if they have a dip in. GEEZ! That was the queen I wanted! A Copenhagen Angel as it were.

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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #209 on: March 03, 2016, 04:05:00 AM »
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Some sad news to report today...

Rest In Peace Lee ‘Hawk’ Reherman
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RIP Lee.
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Re: General Discussion - 2016
« Reply #207 on: March 01, 2016, 02:07:00 PM »
Just a couple things that have helped me stay the course over the last few weeks...more or less self-instruction. It helps for me to type them out  hopefully will help someone else in the process.

Give each temptation some credit, don't just brush it off. We all have our triggers (driving to work, ball game, toilet time, poker night, all of the above  more) that really make us want to dip. When these events happen, acknowledge them  take a moment to remind yourself why it's so important to stay quit. Don't be so arrogant as to pat them on the head like a little brother  tell them to run along. If you had a little brother like mine, you know they have a way of striking right when you get comfortable.

After you KTC, at some point (likely many points) you'll have to kill the thought that you can have a cheat dip; that one cheat dip won't undo all your hard work. Maybe you're a unicorn and can have 3 dips a year and never think about it otherwise. If so, congrats, I hate you  I can't relate. For the rest of us, the cheat dip is just a little bread crumb the nic bitch left behind when we kicked her out. Remind yourself it will absolutely NOT be as great as you think. You'll expect a big euphoric reunion when seeing this "old friend" again, but it never works that way. You just feel guilty, stupid  childish. And if this is your first attempt at quitting, just trust me on this, I have an perfect cheat-dipping record. Something like 0-fer-fifty.